营造“幸福家庭” Creating a happy Family

艺术家 | 周红庆Zhou Hongqing

  • 每个人都处在家庭生活、职业生活和社会生活当中。
      家庭是我们生存的基础,人生不能没有家庭。和配偶、子女、父母一起生活,享受天伦之乐,是人生最基本的幸福。
      职业是我们生存的立足之本,人生不能没有职业。一个人没有自己的职业,就推动了生存的经济与物质基础。
      社会是我们生存的空间,人是社会的人,任何人都不可能脱离社会生存在真空中。
      在竞争激励的当今社会,人们都为了使自己有一个幸福的家庭,给家人尽可能多的经济、物质上的满足,而努力在职场中打拼,常常昼夜不停地工作。工作之余,还要为了提高社会存在感,促进自己职场发展,经常主动或被动地参与各种社会交际应酬。
      长此以往,在经营家庭上的精力投入得少了,关注度少了,陪伴亲人的时间少了,彼此失去信任,隔阂升级为矛盾。在职业生活与社会生活有了些收获时,家庭生活却被渐渐淡去,产生危机,出现了貌合神离的家庭关系,夫妻间、父母与子女间关系疏远,导致了近年来离婚率越来越高。
      家庭关系是社会最基本的关系,家庭是职场、交际的后方基地,家庭关系处理的好坏不仅仅事关个人幸福,更影响到社会的稳定和发展。
      作者正是看到了当前这三者关系带来的各种问题,通过“角色置入”的方式,走访了一些同学、朋友、同事家庭,与每个家庭“结缘”,将自己置身于不同家庭语境中,与家庭成员共同就餐、娱乐、休闲、做家务,演绎出一个个“幸福家庭”,以亲身体验来呼吁人们都要关注家庭生活,尽可能多的陪伴家人,用心沟通,用爱经营,以幸福和谐的家庭生活,助推职业生活与社会生活的健康发展,实现互促互赢。
      Everyone is in family life, professional life and social life.
      Family is the basis of our survival. We cannot live without family. Living with your spouse, children and parents and enjoying the happiness of your family is the most basic happiness in life.
      Occupation is the foundation of our survival. We cannot live without occupation. A person without his own career promotes the economic and material basis of survival.
      Society is our living space, and people are social people. No one can live in a vacuum without society.
      In today's competitive society, people work hard in the workplace, often working day and night, in order to have a happy family and give their families as much financial and material satisfaction as possible. After work, in order to improve the sense of social existence and promote their career development, they often actively or passively participate in various social intercourse.
      In the long run, less energy is invested in running a family, less attention is paid, less time is spent with relatives, mutual trust is lost, and estrangement escalates into contradiction. When some gains have been made in professional and social life, family life has been gradually faded, resulting in crisis, and there have been seemingly divorced family relations. The estrangement between husband and wife, parents and children has led to an increasing divorce rate in recent years.
      Family relationship is the most basic relationship in society. Family is the rear base of workplace and communication. The handling of family relationship is not only related to personal happiness, but also affects the stability and development of society.
      The author saw all kinds of problems brought about by the current relationship between the three. Through the way of "role placement", he visited some classmates, friends and colleagues' families, and "made friends" with each family. He put himself in different family contexts, dined, entertained, relaxed and did housework with family members, and deduced "happy families" one by one, appealing to people to pay attention to family life through personal experience, Accompany your family as much as possible, communicate with your heart, operate with love, and promote the healthy development of professional life and social life with a happy and harmonious family life, so as to achieve mutual promotion and win-win.